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Fed Up With Promiscuous HEs? Don’t Blame Biology, Query Socialization

In some remote village at the heart of Africa’s east gate, a heavily expectant woman checks-in at the health center . Her time is due and her agony throws the clinic into a commotion. Moments later, she gifts the world two adorable little humans. It’s a boy and a girl, the midwife exclaims in joy, wiping off drops of sweat from her forehead. Mom and dad are so excited; Mary and Martin will be their names, they agree amid sobs and tears of joy. Five years later, Mary has been accustomed to sticking around mama whenever she is at home, observing her closely as she performs the household duties. Once in a while mama throws some counsel at Mary; it may not make much sense at her tender age but her soft brain is absorbing every word of wisdom leaving mama’s mouth. All the while, Martin has learn ed to abide by his strict time budget; on the to-do-list are three special activities – play-eat-sleep, which the young lad observes religiously without fail. Mary has similar tasks ...

Love and Respect for Humanity

In the previous post Injustice: The demon of doom , we discovered that the only way we can suppress injustice in the world is by instilling the virtue of ‘love and respect for humanity’ in every human under the sun. However, a world population of 7 billion people is not a small village. No wonder injustice has continued to blossom, threatening to bring our society to its knees. I'll remain optimistic in the knowledge that the only thing that doesn’t have a solution here on earth is death. Hopefully, we’ll implement the much needed solution. Maybe you’re reasoning together with me and thinking, what if we introduce a ‘World Social Ethics Organization’ just like World Health Organization and mandate this organization to ensure every child born to the world is given social ethics doses(lessons) for the first eighteen years of their life. In the same way WHO is involved in the process of immunization, where children are mandated to receive some crucial jabs within the first...

Injustice: The Demon of Doom

Injustice is an age-old vice that has tormented humanity since sin found its way to the world. It’s an agent of regression that fights against humanity and posterity. Many mortals have been subject to the burdensome yoke of Injustice at one time or another. With advancing of age, Injustice has gained momentum and has become like a fierce tsunami; it has shaken crucial pillars of our society. The world is writhing in pain in the claws of the demon of doom. Injustice fans the flames of many social evils on one hand and squeezes life out of the dreams of its victims on the other. The despicable demon of doom has successfully managed to lord it over humans who apparently have a strange weak willpower to fight back. This vice is older than all of us; we come, suffer helplessly, lament endlessly and go. Every time a new life checks-in on earth, the world heaves a sigh of relief and rejoices that finally someone has arrived to take the bull by its horns and put to an end the rut...

Arrest the Rampant Single Parenthood Mania

The importance of bringing forth and bringing up children in a controlled environment cannot be overemphasized. Though some people may claim to know what’s best for their children, there are those who really don’t give a damn about their offspring. For a moment, I would like us to ditch our individual beliefs and consider what the author of life defined as an ideal environment for bringing forth new life. [At the beginning of age, God made a home for man (Garden of Eden). Then He created man (male and female) and placed them at the garden. Finally, He said to them, “Multiply and fill the earth.” This means that a new life should be brought forth into an already prepared home and the progenitors should be present to welcome and nurture it. These are the minimum standards for bringing forth a new life as per the life-author’s guide.] However, humans have adopted a self-destructive culture. Misuse of freedom of choice has resulted in weird beliefs that have conditioned the hum...

Marginalization: The Lethal Double-edged Sword

Marginalization whether at the national, community or family level is a ruthless violation of the principle of equity/justice/fairness. It’s a flop on duty and responsibility.  Marginalization aborts dreams and hopes of many innocent lives. It cripples its victims, impoverishes them and wastes their lives. Marginalization is a deliberate neglect of the needs of subjects as well as a failure to recognize the wasted potential. The most painful element of marginalization is the amount of untold suffering borne by the marginalized groups. Normally, a sharp contrast exists between the quality of life of the marginalized group and that of the responsible authority. And the same is true when you compare the lives of the favored group versus the marginalized group.  However, nature has a very faithful servant known as fate charged with the responsibility of overseeing equity/justice/fairness in the universe. Fate is a law of nature that ensures actions and inactions are reward...

Is The Health Of A Nation A Reflection Of The Health Of Its Families?

Family is the basic unit of society. Therefore, it goes without saying that society is a composition of families. Hence, a morally ill society is a reflection of morally ill families. When we talk of social evils like corruption, injustice, misuse of power etc. more often we shift our focus to leaders forgetting that leadership is just a title; these people are children born and bred in our families. For instance, whenever a leader is exposed on issues of integrity or rather lack of it, we descend upon them with hate and criticism; we demonize them and even ostracize them. What hypocrisy! We adopt holier than thou attitudes and forget that we too are hanging on the same integrity scale; the only difference being, we’ve not been placed under an auditor’s lens (Almost every human being is or will be a leader at some point in their life. Whether you’re heading a nation, a religious body, a learning institution, a home etc. as long as someone is looking up to you for guidance, pro...

Trading Honesty & Integrity for Situational Ethics: Utter Selfishness

Honesty and integrity are values esteemed by all value loving entities. These values are highly sought after, though they’re quickly becoming extinct in the present day society. Our society has succumbed to moral decadence, and those responsible for modeling morality have adopted a hands off approach towards eradicating the menace. The truth is, instead of nurturing wholesome children, we’re bringing up children with twisted moral values. Kids that are slowly and unknowingly substituting integrity for popular culture and wisdom for cheap lies. And what do we get?   Depraved-pathological-little-witty-liars, who’re celebrated for being *smart*. They don’t see any wrong in breaking all the rules, and getting their little selves into all manner of adventure. After all, their *wit* will unfix them in case someone demands accountability. Folks we’ve lost it; we need to re-focus. "So how do situational ethics arise here?" You ask. Important to note is, we live in an imperf...

Wake Up from Slumber and Illegalize the Wickedly Lucrative Business of Trading Moral Values

It feels good to lounge in a comfort zone especially when you know the environment out there is hostile, stormy and everything uncomfortable. You close your eyes and pretend all is well forgetting the storm is bound to catch up with you sooner or later. Sadly, that’s what the present society has become.  We all fold our arms hoping things will get better forgetting someone has got to work on them for them to get better. Unfortunately, our lack of responsibility towards maintaining the moral fabric of our society has turned us into a reactive society. We have failed to realize that withdrawing from problems does not prevent them from charging on. We leave problems to balloon until they can’t contain themselves, only to run helter-skelter, burning midnight oil looking for counter solutions when they burst out of control.  For instance, the media is littered with campaigns on contraceptives and STI protection methods. And who is the target of these campaigns? Anyone...